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The Bitterness of Divorce

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From: Carmenza
To: The Path of Truth
Sent: Saturday, January 25, 2014 9:33 AM
Subject: Cristianismo Falso

Carmenza’s Letter in English: 

Congratulations, excellent article. It portrays the truth we see today. People hide behind Jesus Christ in order to sin and then they act as if they don’t need to repent, so nobody can judge them.. 
I had a Christian husband and both he and his family made my life impossible, but they could sin and just repent.. until they got me to divorce him. Now my ex says he will seek God for real this time and honor Him…. after all the harm he caused.. SO HE CAN START A NEW LIFE AND BE PROSPERED AND A WITH A NEW WOMAN. DIDN’T he know God’s word…? In short, YOUR ARTICLE IS RIGHT ON AND TRUTHFUL
Thanks a lot! 
I believe in Judaism and Jesus was a perfect Jewish who taught to love our creator and our neighbor and obey all of his commandments. 
Above all (He taught) not to judge and many Christians do just that; they lack mercy and good works without expecting anything in return. 
Why do Christians crucify Christ so much with their hypocrisy? ?

From: Victor Hafichuk
To: Edwin Romero and Carmenza
Sent: Tuesday, January 28, 2014 3:17 PM
Subject: Reply to Carmenza

You must understand, Carmenza, that being judged by God is a great honor and privilege, which God reserves for His children and not for the tares who call themselves “Christian” but are not (the hypocrites you speak of). 

“If you endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons, for what son is he whom the father does not chasten? But if you are without chastisement, of which all are partakers, then you are bastards and not sons” (Hebrews 12:7-8 MKJV).

Those who despise repentance dishonor and destroy themselves.

Correction of the false religious will come in due time, but first we who believe by God’s grace and gift of faith must be judged in order to bring His judgment to others. Jesus Christ is the Savior of all men (read The Good News).

If your husband is honestly speaking of repentance, and you are his God-given wife, then why aren’t you reconciling? Why did you agree to a divorce in the first place? It sounds like you’re bitter, which means you haven’t come to a proper understanding of what God requires of you in this situation, or if you have, you aren’t believing and following Him in what He would have you do. 

You say of Jesus: “Above all (He taught) not to judge and many Christians do just that; they lack mercy and good works without expecting anything in return.

Yet aren’t you judging your ex-husband and expecting something in return? 

Now, your ex-husband may be completely wrong, as Joseph’s brothers who sold him into slavery were, but you haven’t come to the place where Joseph said to his brothers, “You meant it for evil, but God meant it for good.” 

You have some things to soberly consider and to seek God for His directions about on this matter. 

As for Jesus being a “perfect Jew,” He certainly was so in the days of His flesh, according to the definition the apostle Paul gives:

“But he is a Jew who is one inwardly, and circumcision is of the heart; in spirit and not in letter; whose praise is not from men, but from God” (Romans 2:29 MKJV).

Of Him, Peter said, “He who did no sin, nor was guile found in His mouth…” (1 Peter 2:22 MKJV).

Perhaps it may help you to read Diabolical Doctrine: Jewish Worship Practices Are Important to Keep.

Where are you from, Carmenza, and do you speak English? A brother in the Lord from Honduras, Edwin Romero, has translated these letters for us. 


Hello, Carmenza! This is Edwin. I see the Lord has given you good instruction through Victor. That’s what the Lord does with those who come to this site; He did it with me, and He’s still doing it. The important thing is to get to know Him first and then share His liberating truth with others. You have the blessing to have somebody to clarify the state of things for you now, if you can believe. 

There’s much so more you can read and avail of at our webpage. We hope to hear more from you, and I’m here to help if you need translation or if you have any other questions.

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