Men
and women, particularly those who name the wonderful Name of
the Lord Jesus Christ, prepare yourselves and count the cost of
believing or disbelieving what is about to be said in this manuscript.
The truth does always initially divide as Jesus said it would,
and not unite as false teachers often claim. Jesus said: "Think
not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace,
but a sword. For I am come to set a man at variance against his
father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in
law against her mother in law. And a man's foes shall be they of
his own household" (Matthew 10:35-36).
I call on husbands
who would walk in faith and obedience to the Lord Jesus, Who purchased
them with His blood, to forsake their wives
for His sake.
I now solemnly declare to you from the beginning the purpose of
this writing. It is to sound the trumpet that all husbands are heeding,
following and submitted to their wives, that those who profess
to believe and walk with the Lord Jesus Christ are obeying their
wives and not the Lord as they may think.
It doesn't matter if you are a minister of the Gospel, of the Church,
real
or supposed.
It doesn't matter how long you think you have been a Christian
or serving the Lord. Indeed, many have had a relationship with
the Lord but now are called for the ultimate. I call on husbands
who would walk in faith and obedience to the Lord Jesus, Who purchased
them with His blood, to forsake their wives
for His sake.
I
call on them to deny themselves, take up their cross and be crucified
unto the world. I call them to cease allegiance to the Evil One.
"These are they which were not defiled with women; for they are
virgins. These are they which follow the Lamb wherever He goes.
These were redeemed from among men, being the firstfruits unto God
and to the Lamb" (Revelation 14:4).
But did Jesus come for division's sake? No. He came to redeem all
of mankind. Ultimately, those divided would be reunited, not in
the flesh but in the spirit, of one heart and one soul, not superficially
as before but in truth, in reality.
It is not just speculation but a matter of record
that our world is rapidly declining....
We will begin in the beginning:
"And
when the woman saw that the tree was good for
food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired
to make
one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave
also unto her husband with her; and he did eat" (Gen.
3:6).
From that day forward, mankind has slowly but surely descended into
utter corruption. It is speculated, and with good reason, that
in the beginning, the earth and all things in it were much healthier,
both in substance and appearance; that people, animals, birds
and aquatic life were far bigger, stronger, more attractive, healthier;
that plant life was far more luscious, verdant and fruitful; that
weather and climate as well were far more conducive to enjoyment
and productivity. It is not just speculation but a matter of record
that our world is rapidly declining and that, for example, weather
patterns are becoming quite erratic. Earthquakes are also increasing
at an accelerating rate, century by century, decade by decade,
year by year.
Is it not true, according to the testimony of the Scriptures, that
in the beginning, mankind lived to be nearly a thousand years
old and that as time passed, life spans decreased until the expected
age was "threescore and ten"? In fact, throughout some of our
recent history, the life expectancy has been considerably less,
and even today is less in many nations around the world. There
is no reason to believe that the same pattern of degeneration
has not prevailed in all of creation.
Ever since Eve partook of the Tree of Knowledge
and gave Adam to eat, wives have ruled over the husbands.
However, the purpose of this paper obviously is not to discuss sin
in general and its consequences as might be supposed, but to consider
a more specific perspective. The declaration of this writing will
no doubt surprise, shock and even enrage many people, and more
particularly so-called Christians or believers of God. The writer
will be condemned, reviled and accused of the very opposite of
what he is doing by declaring the following truth. So it has always
been and shall be now.
The
truth is this: Ever since Eve partook of the Tree of Knowledge
and gave Adam to eat, wives have ruled over the husbands. Yes,
you read that correctly. Yes, perhaps you have many arguments,
supposed examples, proofs and even scriptures to discredit this
truth. For example, after the fall, God said to Eve: "...and your
desire shall be to your husband, and he shall rule over you" (Gen.
3:16). But bear with me, you who seek the liberation of God, both
men and women. "You shall know the truth and the truth
will make you free... If the Son therefore shall make you free, you shall be
free indeed" (John 8:32,36).
The Lord God spoke to Adam (to the man - Genesis 2:16)
saying that he was not to eat of the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and
Evil.
The day came that Adam stepped out from the covering and law of
God and heeded his wife rather than God. He disobeyed God; he abdicated
his rightful place under God; he traded Head for head; he sinned.
I hereby today do declare that ever since that day, men have been
taken by, and submitting to, their wives and not to God. They
have forsaken the law and the Word of God and believed their wives
instead. The rib has ruled instead of the head.
The woman was deceived, leaving the covering of her head, her
husband, and heeding the counsel and influence of the serpent
who contradicted God. Heeding the serpent, Eve became subject
to him, and in heeding Eve, Adam also became subject to the serpent
through his wife. Has not Satan been referred to by Jesus Himself
as the prince (ruler) of this world (John 12:31)? Yes, and the
serpent took control when he seduced Eve who in turn seduced, by
the power of the serpent, Adam her husband.
If she
didn't feel I should, I figured my thought was not of God and therefore
I did not go.
Men have been under the power and influence of their wives ever
since, increasingly so as time has marched on. At first, it seemed
otherwise in the main but the deadly seed had been sown. Even as
all things have deteriorated down these many centuries to this day,
death taking its toll as promised, so has the husband\wife relationship
(as far as God, not necessarily man, is concerned).
People, is this not a liberating assertion, a truth? If, in reality,
husbands are to be wholly submitted to God, wives are to be wholly
submitted to husbands, neither is happening, but all is seen for
what it is, know that liberation is at the doors. Here you've
been trying and trying to make this happen, pretending that it
is happening, knowing it is the will of God, yet in your heart
you know it isn't a reality. What is the answer? Recognition,
acknowledgment and confession to God and to all that this submission,
this godly relationship with God and spouse, is not a reality. From
there, God takes over because now is the time. Don't condemn yourselves
for this not being there up to now. It hasn't been the time. Rejoice
instead that now is the time, after long last! Men, it is time
to lay down your lives, forsake your wives, believing and obeying
God.
I walked with God in a certain way until some time after I married.
At some point in my married life, I began to determine the will
of God in various matters by whether or not there was agreement
between my wife and me. I was looking for confirmation. "Shall I
go to town, today, dear? How do you feel about it?" If she "felt"
I should, I likely went, concluding it was the will of God. If she
didn't feel I should, I figured my thought was not of God and therefore
I did not go. There are many things wrong with this approach:
Firstly, I often had thoughts, not directions from God.
Secondly, with such, we were dealing more in the realm of feelings
rather than inspiration from God. So we were not dealing with
God's Word or inspiration and having a witness; we were only agreeing
or disagreeing with each other on thoughts.
Thirdly, if God directed me, I was wrong in seeking confirmation
from my wife or anyone in matter of obedience and direction before the
act of obedience. Confirmations come after believing God, after
obeying
Him,
not before. To seek agreement before one believes God
or acts in obedience to God is to seek after a sign. That is unbelief;
it is a preservation of self; it is wickedness; it is a perversion
(a perverse version) of spiritual faith. Jesus said that an evil
and adulterous generation seeks after a sign and no sign will be
given it.
The woman was not created
to be the head but the helper.
But fourthly, I had set my wife up as judge as to what was of God
or not. It was my job as head of the wife to do the judging; it
was up to me to determine whether what she heard was of God or
not, and not the other way around. I put a horrible burden upon
her shoulders; in essence, I made her to be God in my life. With
that kind of conduct, we descended into Hell, both of us. (Then
she got a false prophecy which the Lord used to correct it all.)
“Into Hell, you say? So it wasn't the woman's fault after all, but
man's, if we judge the general problem by your marriage, Victor."
To this I must reply: "This is not a matter of whose fault
it is but rather what the fault is." The woman was not created
to be the head but the helper. Because she is out of place in hearing
as head, she will not be blessed in guiding the husband; she will
not hear from God but from her own mind, thoughts, emotions, inclinations,
from the man of sin within. God cannot bless an illegitimate relationship,
an arrangement between a man and wife not according to His will.
He cannot bless a man for seeking counsel elsewhere than from
Him. As He said, "...there will be no sign given..." (no direction,
no guidance, no word).
Am I saying that we did not hear from God ever since I began looking
to the wife? No. God did not abandon us, nor has He abandoned
others who have walked this way. God did not abandon the Israelites
in spite of many things they did contrary to God, such as retaining
the high places and worshipping other gods. He continued to lead
them; He continued to lead us. It was all part of His unfathomable
program. God is merciful and longsuffering.
“Let your women keep silence in the churches....”
Am I saying that women do not hear from God? No. Am I saying that
men should walk independently of their wives? When it comes to
hearing from God, yes. If God should choose to speak a word of
direction from the wife, it is up to the husband to judge whether
the word is from God or not. The issue is not
to whom God
is speaking; the issue is one of the heart, a matter of faith, a matter
of whether the hearts seek God and His will or that of their own.
Now the Scriptures clearly declare the proper order of things between
the sexes in terms of spiritual authority and conduct, particularly
in marriage. Paul wrote to Timothy: "In like manner also, [I will]
that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness
and sobriety; not with plaited hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly
array; But (which becomes women professing godliness) with good
works. Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But
I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the
man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in
the transgression" (I Timothy 2:9-14).
He also wrote: "Let your women keep silence in the churches [not
only a husband/wife matter but women in general]: for it is not
permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under
obedience, as also says the law [not a matter of custom or 'the
times,' as scholarly students of the Bible are erroneously taught,
thinking they are wise in their 'looking at the historical and
cultural context of the times,' but a matter of the law of God].
And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at
home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church. What?
came the word of God out from you [notice - word of God, not situation
ethics]? or came it to you only? If any man think himself to be
a prophet, or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things that
I write to you are the commandments of
the Lord. But if any man be ignorant, let him be ignorant" (I
Corinthians 14:34-38).
Today, jokingly,
even otherwise, the wife is referred to as “the
better half” or “the boss.”
The commandments of the Lord. And what did the Lord say of those?
That not one jot or tittle of the law of God would pass, that
heaven and earth would pass first. Therefore what stood then,
stands today, seeing that heaven and earth have yet to pass. We
are also not to believe Jesus meant that if and when heaven and earth
pass that the law would then be null and void or changed. No. God's
law is eternal, a reflection of His nature Who is eternal.
Look
around you, people. Can you honestly point to one marriage
in the present few generations, just one, wherein you can truly
say: "In that marriage, the man is head in his house?" Can you declare
of your own marriage that the man is truly the head? Get honest.
Today, jokingly, even otherwise, the wife is referred to as "the
better half" or "the boss." Men may sometimes think they make
the big decisions in the household but do they really? Truly,
many don't even think that anymore. But if they do think so, are
they not allowed to do so, governed by their spousal
supervision, whether obviously or subtly? Think about it. And where the wives
do not make decisions, as for example when a man at work must do without
the wife, is it a matter of authority or one of circumstance and convenience?
Could it be that the wife can't be doing everything
all the time or perhaps simply that she isn't interested? But let
her become interested, let her become aware that she is being affected
by those decisions, let her become aware that she has options, particularly
those preferable to her, then see who starts to hold the reins.
How oft has society, both "secular" and "religious" or
"Christian" referred to the wife of a prominent man as "the hand
or the power behind the throne!" How true! The husband has been
the President of the United States but it is the Hillary Clintons, the
Nancy Reagans, the Barbara Bushes, the Betty Fords and the Rosalynn
Carters who have ruled. Americans voted for the man, often under
influence of the wife, and got women in the presidency every time.
In spite of its corruption, does not the Roman Catholic Church have
vestiges of sound, spiritual principle, however distorted, in its
policy and practice of celibacy for its priests?
There is not one marriage I can
think of, past or present... wherein I recognize
an exception to what I write here today.
How often have you heard the saying, "She wears the pants in the
family"? Ironically, it is said by those who do not realize that
the same truth applies to themselves. For twenty-five years, I
didn't realize that I was one of those. Now those who profess to
be born again Christians do not as often make these remarks. Why?
Because they usually know that in the light of the Scriptures,
wives are commanded to submit to their husbands. And so, according
to that counsel and law, wives try to submit and husbands try to
love their wives even as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself
for it. The fact is, both fail and fail miserably. They may succeed
somewhat in giving the appearance otherwise but, in the reality,
they fail. Why? Because men have trusted their wives over God and
have obeyed, relied upon, trusted them instead of God, howbeit in
the Name of God. God knows it, I know it and you know it. I now confess
it and declare it to you by the grace of God because God has given
me to do so. Now you need to recognize, acknowledge, confess and
repent of the same. It's time.
Many
marriages appear to make a liar or fool of me. Doubtless my
own past marriage would appear, in the eyes of some or perhaps
many, to do so. They only appear to do so, and upon closer examination
and deeper, honest consideration, you will realize that what I
speak is the truth. Nor do I believe I judge other marriages by
my own, lest any should think so. There is not one marriage I can
think of, past or present, be it mine, that of friends, neighbors,
relatives, parents, Christian families or otherwise wherein I recognize
an exception to what I write here today. I speak by the revelation
of God and, hopefully, by His grace, the reader will come to know
whereof I speak and be liberated; man or woman...and it must begin
with the man.
Many marriage counselors claim to have the proper order of God and
harmony in their marriage. They believe that the husband is indeed
relating to the wife as the weaker vessel, laying down the life
for her, and that the wife is submitting to the husband out of
a true appreciation for his love. Thus they believe they are qualified
to be examples and teachers to other couples. The reality is otherwise.
Rightly or wrongly, it has been a small source of amusement to
see marriage counseling couples teaching, with the woman doing
all the talking, or where the man speaks, it is evident that
he speaks trying to be "politically correct," seeking her approval.
The wife still "pulls the strings." At best marriages are limited
"partnerships," and many "Christian" couples proudly declare so,
as if such were a Godly virtue. But tell me, where in the Scriptures
does it even suggest that marriage was ever intended to be a partnership,
that husband and wife were to operate on an equal basis? The
answer is quite simply, "Nowhere." While it does say that God
made woman to be a helper, it does not in any way suggest she
was to be an equal partner anymore than an apprentice is equal with
his master.
In terms of
authority and status in His order of things, no persons are
equal.
The very fact that people would view their marriage as an equal partnership
demonstrates that the wife already rules the husband. Since when
should she have such a concession? Having power to gain such tells
where the power is. If she has not gained such by her own power,
the husband has abdicated his position, having no right under
God to give her that status of equality in the first place. Yet
in the sin of Adam coursing through his veins, he had no choice;
the relationship was a matter of nature.
You may ask, "Do you dare say that women aren't equal to men? Isn't
that 'sexist,' and even antiChristian? Didn't the apostle Paul
say that in Christ there is neither male nor female? Didn't Jesus
liberate women from male dominance?"
I reply: "In terms of personhood and individual value, God decides
whom He favors and whom He does not; however, insofar as people
in themselves are concerned, whether they be Greek or Jew, slave
or free, ruling or ruled, rich or poor, wise or simple, royal or
common, black or white, male or female, wed or single, young or
old, weak or strong, God is no respecter of persons. In terms of
authority and status in His order of things, no persons are
equal."
Consider: God sets up and brings down nations and rulers according
to His will as declared by the Scriptures. Does not the Prime Minister
of Canada whom God has raised up have powers and privileges that
many do not have? Of course. This principle applies to all spheres
of our existence. Do not managers of businesses have powers and
privileges their employees do not have? Certainly. (Do not employees
have advantages and privileges which business owners/employers do not
have?) Do not quarterbacks and coaches have authority and power
respecting their positions? Yes. Therefore, in terms of position,
status, privilege and power, and in terms of consequences such as
incomes and benefits (or responsibilities) there is no equality
at all.
Authority is not a matter of sex but of status or condition as determined by God.
So with marriages. The same man who said there is neither Greek
nor Jew in Christ also said that the Jew has much advantage (Romans
3:1-2). So while in Christ, there is no difference in value, yet
the Jew has advantage; there is an inequality of sorts. The same
man who said that in Christ there is neither bond nor free also
said, "Servants be obedient to them that are your masters according
to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in singleness of heart, as
unto Christ...." The same man who said there is neither male nor
female in Christ also said, "Wives, submit to your husbands; obey
them" (Ephesians 5:22; Colossians 3:18).
Children are either male or female as are their parents. If in Christ,
shall sons therefore be exempt from obedience to mothers, somehow
being sexually neutralized, by virtue of Paul's words, which the
rebellious quote to escape responsibility and accountability?
Not according to Paul: "Children obey your parents in the Lord:
for this is right. Honor your father and mother; which is the first
commandment with promise; that it may be well with you..." (Ephesians
6:1-3).
Authority
is not a matter of sex but of status or condition as determined
by God. (That should answer the second question: "Isn't that sexist?")
Therefore Paul was not speaking of authority status when he said
that in Christ there is neither male nor female, bond nor free,
Greek nor Jew. Only those on, or considering, the path of iniquity
choose to think so, ignorant or determined to have their own way.
Neither was Paul saying that women in general do not ever have authority
over men. Doubtless there were female masters with male servants
and therefore these women had the responsibility to direct them.
He...chose all male apostles
and inspired them to appoint male leaders in His Church, His body.
So if I say that the Scripture declares that wives, being female,
obey and submit to their husbands who are male, am I being sexist?
No. I am simply speaking that which God has ordained and spoken
and revealed in the Scriptures, those Scriptures that Christianity
refers to as final authority. Therefore neither is it antiChristian.
And if God doesn't have the right to decide and to order His creation,
who does? His creatures who are rebellious? Those who are ignorant?
Hardly. Do we want salvation and peace or destruction and torment?
Each must decide for him or herself. There is no escape of reward
or consequence for either choice, anymore than we can do away
with the sun or gravity or death or God Himself.
Did Jesus liberate women from male dominance? Yes, He did. He gave
His spirit to women as well as men, an inheritance in things eternal.
And consider that as He did so, He inspired the apostle Paul to
teach those things mentioned above. He also chose all male apostles
and inspired them to appoint male leaders in His Church, His body.
And do I contradict myself when I consent that there was male dominance?
Brutishly, men have exerted their powers over women wherever possible,
even as strong animals might turn on their keepers, but as the
pen is mightier than the sword, so spirit is more mighty than flesh,
and women have had the power to rule not by force but by spirit,
quite superiorly. Consider Samson, who not only believed but who
had supernatural strength and anointing of God, and Delilah, a
woman of an unbelieving people upon whom was destined the judgment
of God, and that by Samson, for example. Samson lost his power and
authority to her, having disobeyed God.
Tears, soft voices, tenderness, caresses, fragrances, beauty, intelligence,
persuasiveness, persistence, weakness and helplessness, sexual
temptations, inspirations, food ("The shortest way to a man's heart
is through his stomach" it is said) and passion are all in the
woman's formidable arsenal to subdue a man's will to her desires
and purposes. Samson, the strongest man that ever lived, succumbed
to such powers; Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived, disobeyed
God Who warned Israel to not marry unbelieving wives, lest they
turn them to idolatry. He married many wives who then turned him,
by the power of Satan, to worship their gods. The wisest man became
the greatest fool, putty in the hands of wives.
Why was the flood brought upon the earth? Was it not because there
was a horrible mingling of natures, a mixture, sons of God marrying
daughters of men (spirit vs. flesh)? And why did they marry them
and disobey God? Because even by then, women had that power from
the serpent, the prince of this world. And what was the motivation?
As it is written: "...the sons of God saw the daughters of men
that they were fair...and they took them wives..." (Genesis 6:2). Physical
beauty overcame spiritual chastity.
...Have you ever noticed that while Jesus has called
men to forsake wives, one will not find anywhere that wives are
called
to forsake husbands?
The Bible mentions Jacob as being a pawn, an object of negotiation
in Rachel's hands. Leah desired that Jacob sleep with her so Rachel
bargained with her in mandrakes, a narcotic plant used for a love
philter, and Jacob slept with Leah (Genesis 30:14-16).
Speaking of pawns! For all those familiar with Chess, please note
that while the king can only move one space at a time, the Queen
can move as many as she likes. The queen is the powerful one,
protecting the king in the process. So it has been in this world
and someone was wise enough to perceive it when fashioning the
game.
Now the Scripture says that in Christ there is neither male
nor female. What about outside of Christ? Shall one say there is equality
of the sexes only in Christ and not in the flesh or world? Obviously,
Paul was speaking of the believers' inheritance in Christ, which
the world knows nothing of. In Christ, we are all heirs, partakers
of His nature, male and female. Outside of Christ, whether we
be male or female, we have no part in Him.
Also have you ever noticed that while Jesus has called men to
forsake wives, one will not find anywhere that wives are called
to forsake husbands? There are two reasons for that:
It is men and not women that Jesus called to be ministers in
the Church. So it is to this very day. Therefore, if they are married
or planning on it yet called of God to serve Him, they must be
prepared to forsake their wives and not only them but all people
and things.
As already declared, men are not merely in need of forsaking
wives in the sense that they forsake any other persons or things;
they are in need of turning, turning from one head
to Another Head, their rightful Head; they are called to forsake
obedience and allegiance to their wives, from seeking God's
will and
voice
by
their
wives in the name of agreement or confirmation, to seeking God, His will,
His voice directly as it was originally determined by God and
occurred in the beginning (Genesis 2:16). They are called on to repent of having abdicated their responsibility and direct accountability
to God. They are called upon to return to their rightful place
in God, to lay down their lives for His sake, the gospel's, and
for their wives, to fulfill all righteousness.
Therefore it is not only the calling into a ministry upon a man
that necessitates the forsaking of his wife, but the call upon every
man in this final day to return to a rightful relationship with
God. Adam did not have a "ministry" but that did not give him the
right to obey his wife, to follow her, to eat from her hand instead
of God's. He sinned. Today, I call upon "Adam" to repent and return
to his rightful Head and his rightful headship. This is the day
for that now.
Here is the sequence of events as they have formed over the millennia
and are forming:
God is and declares His authority to His creation, man.
Eve is deceived and falls.
Adam falls following Eve.
(Those events occurred about 6,000 years ago, continuing since).
Jesus Christ intervenes, laying down His life as the perfect
sacrifice, to redeem man from this world, from the power of sin
and from the power of the serpent who is prince of this world, having
gained that power by the woman.
(This event occurred about 2,000 years ago, continuing since).
Adam (man) rises, forsaking his wife, returning to God, restored
by Christ laying down His life, and in turn lays down his
life in obedience to God, thus throwing off the bondage to the
prince of this world by the woman.
Eve is restored through the obedience of the man laying down
his life.
God is and is glorified as Lord of all.
We are now in the fifth and following stages. This is the Day of
the Lord. It is the day of the manifestation of the rising of
Adam, of his repentance of a false god (his wife) and of the return
to his rightful place under God as head of the woman, even as
Christ is the Head of the man and God is the Head of Christ. This
is the Day of God being all in all. This is the day of the Coming
of the Son of Man, His sign being the laying down of the life.
Yes, we have a record of Sarah calling Abraham "lord" as late
as the twentieth generation from Adam (I Peter 3:6). But we also have
a record of Sarah talking Abraham into taking Hagar, an Egyptian
handmaid, in order to have a child by her. He did so and begot
Ishmael, the father of the present day Arabs and Muslims. To this
day we have the multitudes of Arab nations, in mortal enmity with
Israel, the seed of Isaac. (Isaac was the miracle baby God had promised
Abraham and Sarah.) Sarah figured they needed to help God somehow
to keep His promise; her unbelief and direction to her husband had
severe future consequences, although all these things have not been
without purpose.
In the very next generation, Rebekah counseled her son Jacob
to lie and to deceive his own father, her husband. In the next
generation, rulership of women over husbands was manifest in that
when Rachel would have Leah's mandrakes, she granted Leah a night
with Jacob. The power women have had! And all under the sovereignty
of God Who works all things, both good and evil, according to the
counsel of His own will. These things were all ordained of God.
Did not the apostles...forsake their wives?
Although
Elijah slew the religious elite of his day by the power
of God, he soon found himself fleeing for his life. The pursuer
was Jezebel, the wife of Ahab, king of Israel. Jezebel also influenced
her husband Ahab to kill Naboth and to steal his land (I Kings
21-16). She ruled her husband, and did many evil things until
finally, near her end, she tried to seduce a successor to the throne,
Jehu, but failed. Jehu was zealous for the Lord and did not succumb
(II Kings 9:30-33).
In Revelation, a Jezebel type was described to be troubling one
of the churches, teaching and seducing the Lord's servants to commit
fornication, to eat things sacrificed to idols and to commit adultery
(Revelation 2:20-22).
Of a king of Judah, Jehoram, the son of Jehoshaphat, it is written:
"And he walked in the way of the kings of Israel (in evil), as
did the house of Ahab: For the daughter
of Ahab was his wife: And
he did evil in the sight of the Lord" (II
Kings 8:18).
Am I not contradicted by the testimonies of the Holy Scriptures?
Did not the apostles, for instance, forsake their wives? Clearly,
of those who had wives, the Bible declares that they did (Matthew
19:27). So how then can I say that from the beginning, husbands
have been in subjection to wives? Plainly, when Jesus came to
overcome the world, He told His disciples He had done so (John
16:33). At His resurrection, saints rose from the dead. Did that
mean that all was manifestly finished even though we saw some resurrected?
No, the resurrection of all time for mankind was and is yet to
come. All was not done then, finished yes, yet barely begun. So
with marital relationships. Throughout the works of God and history,
there are peaks, exceptions, reversals, samples, examples. But today,
I declare to you that this is the time for the climax, the conclusion,
the "times of restitution of all things" (Acts 3:21).
Have there not been wicked men and not wicked women only? Certainly.
While Eve was deceived, Adam was the one who sinned. Cain killed
Abel; King Saul disobeyed; David sinned by his own fault and not
Bathsheba's, Solomon was held accountable by God for his marrying
the pagan women...the Bible is replete with reports of wicked
men sinning, with or without the influence of women. Even Abraham,
our father of faith, acted fearfully against his own wife to save
his skin.
I believe that
it was her character
and not her physical beauty that won his favor....
Have there not been faithful and holy women? Of course, many. Notwithstanding
the aforementioned human weaknesses, we do recognize Sarah as
a daughter of faith, pious, as we do Rebekah, Leah, Rahab (who
was a harlot), Abigail (who was married to a "son of Belial" -
in today's parlance, "an absolute jerk"), Deborah, the only female
judge of Israel, faithful in her calling, Miriam, a prophetess
and sister to Moses, Ruth, Hannah, Mary (how can we deny that all
men but Adam came from women?) who was called of God and faithful,
and who gave birth to none less than the Saviour of all mankind.
We also have Mary Magdalene, Mary and Martha, three ladies who
were prominently fitted into history (the gospels no less), Phoebe,
and others.
But
now please read the Book of Esther, chapters one and two for
the moment, then later the rest of the book to know "the rest
of the story" as Paul Harvey puts it, and let us consider two
more women. And the account of these two women symbolizes what
I perceive is happening today, in this great Day of the Lord: If
you turn to the Book of Esther, you will read of a rebellious,
leastwise an uncooperative woman, Vashti, wife to King Ahasuerus.
When he requested that she present herself as his wife at festivities
held for his domain, she refused. Why? It doesn't say; only that
she did. It does say that Ahasuerus desired to display her beauty
"for she was fair to look on." Perhaps she didn't like to be displayed;
perhaps she was shy; perhaps it was her time of month! Who knows?
I do know that if she had honored her head, she might have explained
something to him or requested pardon, citing some legitimate reason,
had there been one. But there is no indication of anything other
than self-will involved here. The result was that she was no longer
queen and was replaced by another.
The other was Esther. And what an "other" she was, in contrast
to the difficult Vashti. Esther paid homage to the king; she honored
his person, his status. Was it out of fear? Of a sort, perhaps,
but I believe it was not as much or not only out of fear but out
of a respect born of a humility and godliness that she conducted
herself in reverence to Ahasuerus. I believe that it was her character
and not her physical beauty that won his favor...and respect.
Both parties have been looking
to each other instead of to God for that which only God can provide.
Vashti had no respect for husband or for authority; Esther feared
and honored her husband and king; Vashti cared nothing for peace
and good example in the kingdom; she preserved her life...for
herself; Esther laid hers down...for others, for her nation, for
God. In this historical account determined by God for our example
and for an allegory, there is set forth a figure of the old and
of the new; of what has been till now and of what shall now come
into being; of wives and what they have been like till today and
of what they shall now become. In Vashti is exemplified the selfish,
rebellious, stubborn, irreverent spirit of the man of sin, the
soulish nature that insists upon its way, man choosing independence of
God. In Esther is personified the broken spirit, that precious
treasure to God, the whole mind that in humility and submission
says, "Thy will and not mine." In Esther is demonstrated the sign
of the coming (presence, unveiling, manifestation) of the Son of
Man, the laying down of the life.
The
point of this paper has not been to castigate women and to defend
or absolve men. Not in the least. The point is quite different,
to declare the revelation that women have not been in right relationship
to their husbands until now, while holding the reins of power,
almost imperceptibly at first but increasingly so to the present,
and that now God is about to redeem us all, both men and women,
setting all things in order.
Now, is it not also true that whereas in the beginning, men seemed
to live longer than did women (of those recorded - Abraham longer
than Sarah, Jacob than Leah), today the life expectancy of women
is longer? Why is this? Could it be that, contrary to what some
feminists would have you to believe, men have been the subjugated
lot and not women, and more so as historical time has marched
on? If not subjugated, at least vexed and frustrated with a disjointed
relationship in marriage, even as God has been frustrated with
man for the same reason, man seeking his wife for guidance, comfort
and fulfillment instead of seeking God for same. And women have
looked to their husbands to fulfill their dreams and aspirations,
coercing, pushing, manipulating, inspiring, only to fail and be unsatisfied
and frustrated with them instead. Both parties have been looking
to each other instead of to God for that which only God can provide.
Men and women were not meant to be divided but harmonized.
All has deteriorated to this day and now we have, in the last century
or two, feminism rising as never before in the history of mankind.
(Feminists would rather have me use the term "people" or "personhood"
or even "womankind.") What is wrong with feminism? Nothing except
everything. It is rebellion to God's chosen order of things. Women
ought not to be exalted and neither should men. Anything pitting
one against the other is evil, diabolical, be it feminism, "masculinism"
or any other thing.
Men and women were not meant to be divided but harmonized. There
are many parallels of dualities in God's creation. Some of those
I believe are:
man and God // soul and spirit // wife and husband
As man has not been submitted to God's authority as he should be,
so wives have not been submitted to husbands as they should be
and souls have not been submitted to the spirit as they should
be, having taken the pre-eminent role of leadership over the spirit
within the human being. Rather than living from the Tree of Life,
we have all been eating from the Tree of Knowledge; we, as "born
again believers in the Lord Jesus Christ," have all been doing
our own thing; we have all walked in the "Christian conversion
of the first Adam," the natural man. And truly, it has been meant
to be so.
Now the day is here for the manifestation of the sons of God; it
is the day for the "first Christian" to go, that man of sin, that
pious Adam nature, to make way for the manifestation in these
weak, earthen vessels of the Lord Jesus Christ in all His power
and glory. The soul of every person will be finally established
in its rightful place, wholly submitted to the spirit, man will
be finally established in his rightful place, wholly submitted
to God, and wives will be finally established in holy matrimony,
wholly submitted to their husbands. This will be the final, manifest
destruction of the power and influence of the serpent over God's
creation, and the glory of God revealed in a way never before.
What a day!